It was a cool, dark Halloween evening in that small town in northern California. The group of friends accompanied by one parent was lagging far behind. At nine years old, I was in the lead, a few houses ahead of the others. There a house was set off from the street, beyond the vacant lot and nearly covered by bushes and shrubs. I knew there was a prize to be had at the end of that long driveway. However, the prize would take risk. It was a dark, shadowy place with no streetlight to show the way. As a pirate, I was prepared. A red bandana tied firmly on my head, a small dim flashlight in one hand, and a plastic pirate knife in the other, I set my sights on the glowing porch light of my targeted destination.
The journey started well, my band of brothers was still well behind me. Suddenly a shadow moved to my right. I froze. Out of the murky mist came a large imposing figure of a teenager. Not fully recognizing the threat, I stood toe to toe with him, each of us sizing up the other. He wore a zombie mask. A quick mental inventory of my open options produced little. The group was behind me and a choice needed to be made. It was him or me and I was not keen on relinquishing the candy bounty for which I had worked so hard. My right hand slowly raised the plastic knife. It was over as quickly as it started. In a flash, the teenager grabbed the bag and was gone. Completely stunned, I could not give chase, I did the only thing I could do. My plastic knife dropped to the ground, and I started to cry. My bounty of candy was gone, all gone.
Once home my Mother dried my tears and my friends shared their candy. The bitter memory of the Zombie Candy Thief slowly began to fade. Everything was going to be fine, but at nine years old, something was lost. On a small scale, I began to understand that there is evil in this world. Who steals a child’s candy? From Mother’s point of view, the situation was much darker as she lamented about what the world was coming to and questioned her decision regarding her child’s participation in any further Halloween festivities.
While this true story ended well, it does raise important questions about how Christians should view the Halloween experience. Should we allow our children to participate in Halloween? Is Halloween appropriate?
This parent’s guide will not attempt to answer that question with a simple yes or no. Rather, it will raise discussion points and topics for consideration. Can Halloween be a part of a Christian life and walk? What can parents express to our children about the main theme of Halloween?
Parents, our first and foremost responsibility is to protect and guard our children’s hearts and minds. (Philippians 4:7) The Bible states that we are to take God’s words and “teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house…”(Deuteronomy 6:7) The traditions surrounding Halloween can be a teaching moment guiding what is providing influences into your child’s life. Additionally, non-Christian parents are observing our actions. They are watching to see how we react to this world, and how significantly our faith guides our own thoughts and actions. (Matthew 5:13) As fall progresses, we challenge you take the opportunity to teach and instruct your children as to what is good, what you believe and how you view the world. (John 15:19) Acts 19 Apologetics provides this guide as a means to encourage you to seize this chance to speak truth and wisdom into your children.
Will you join us in completing this worthwhile task?
Deuteronomy 5-7: 5 “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6 And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. 7 You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”
Acts 19 Apologetics
An outline for discussing Halloween and God’s providence over creation with your family.
Step 1: Set the Theme:
- A contemporary celebration of Halloween can be non-demonic or a remembrance of evil spirits. It should be a time to gather as a family, reach out to your neighbors, consume delicious candy, and have an entertaining evening.
- As Christians, we believe that God’s providence over all creation directs everything to fulfill his purposes!
Step 2: Read these Bible passages aloud:
*Consider having others in your family read the passages.*
- Called according to God’s purpose: Romans 8:28
- Do all to the glory of God: 1 Corinthians 10:23-24
- God continually directs everything: Matthew 5:45
- All actions are under God’s care: Acts 25:28
- The Lord directs our steps: Proverbs 16:9
- The Lord’s prayer: Matthew 6:9-13
Step 3: Address the points of discussion.
- First main point: Participating in Halloween is not necessarily a bad thing.
- There are many reasons to gather as a family, a neighborhood, or a community of faith. The modern Halloween celebration is a good reason to come together and rejoice with the people God has placed in our lives. (1 Corinthians 7:5) The important point to remember is to “do all for the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:23-24)
- Jesus commands us in the book of Matthew 5:14 that we are to be the “light of the world”. Going to where people gather and spreading the gospel can accomplish this command. Whether the gathering is a Halloween celebration, or an office party at a pub we must be strong in our faith, and by doing this, we can prayerfully and responsibly take part. Romans (4:20 and Colossians 4:2)
- Second main point: Participating in Halloween should not degrade the Christian life or a spiritual walk with Christ if observed in moderation.
- Third main point: Although, Halloween can be frightening, God has provided this time to gather with our neighbors, share our lives with them and have fun.
- Jesus Christ’s authoritative word abolishes the work of Satan and evil spirits. (Luke 4:31-37) This fact is our hope, joy and the cornerstone of the Christian faith! Therefore, we do not focus on the dark shadowy side of the holiday, but fashion our Halloween festivities to celebrate in a positive and uplifting manner.
- Good and evil are real in this world, but all events are under God’s care. (Acts 25:28) and God continually directs everything in this world. (Matthew 5:45)
- God’s calls us to His purposes in this world. God displays who he is, and what his intentions are in the proper time. (1 Timothy 6:15). When confronted with any situation, we are to rely on the Lord and continue to walk with him. The celebration of Halloween is not different. Provide glory to the Lord in how we gather for a modern Halloween activity. Does this fulfill a part of God’s mission and purpose for us? Yes, if our focus is spreading the gospel of Jesus. (1 Corinthians 10:23-24 and Matthew 28:19-20)
- The Lord directs our steps in all that we do and where ever we may go. (Proverbs 16:9) When Jesus prayed for his disciples, he prayed to the Father that his disciples would be protected in this world after his ascension to heaven. (John 17:11) He prayed this to God the Father in verse fifteen, “My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.” As followers of Christ we are to be “in this world”, but not “of this world.” Whether we are faced with problems at school, or with friends, or tough choices we need to make, our Lord is walking with us, guiding our steps. When the frightfulness of some Halloween celebrations comes in to question, we are sure that we should prayerfully consider the options and go on living out God’s purpose and plan for us. Any Halloween festivities are an opportunity to provide fellowship and grace to believers and non-believers alike.
- Summary of Points:
- The apostle Paul tells us, “all things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify.” (1 Corinthians 10:23 NASB) A Halloween celebration should be worthwhile and beneficial to you and your family’s Christian life.
- Jesus spent time going to where the people congregated to spread the good news. Considering that, as followers of Christ our responsibility is to do the same. Redeem the Halloween experience by spending time with people in your neighborhood. Provide them the opportunity to see the light and grace of our savior.
- A modern Halloween celebration does not need to be frightening, dark and ghoulish for our children. Small adjustments to any event can provide a positive and uplifting experience for the young and the “young at heart”. Focus on the grace and providence of our Lord for he is in control, and that He sent His Son as an indication of his love for us. (John 3.16)